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Overdue post is sort of...overdue.


Huge thanks to the following people for my super hearts of glass:
[livejournal.com profile] lijahlover, [livejournal.com profile] legolaslover77, [livejournal.com profile] emmagrant01, [livejournal.com profile] yumekutteikt, [livejournal.com profile] lilliputian722, [livejournal.com profile] tariana, [livejournal.com profile] hyperdarkchoc92, [livejournal.com profile] ladyoneill, [livejournal.com profile] beren_writes, [livejournal.com profile] traauma, [livejournal.com profile] astridfire, [livejournal.com profile] thilia, [livejournal.com profile] naskaymel, [livejournal.com profile] snegurochka_lee, [livejournal.com profile] moon_foot, [livejournal.com profile] deathlydragon, [livejournal.com profile] sara_holmes, [livejournal.com profile] lady_of_clunn, [livejournal.com profile] kjp_013, [livejournal.com profile] naturegirlrocks, [livejournal.com profile] cinnatart, [livejournal.com profile] thepretender501, [livejournal.com profile] shades_of_dray, [livejournal.com profile] groolover, [livejournal.com profile] ura_hd, [livejournal.com profile] ldydark1, [livejournal.com profile] blamebrampton, [livejournal.com profile] kayladie, [livejournal.com profile] kitty_fic, [livejournal.com profile] enchanted_jae, [livejournal.com profile] delphipsmith, [livejournal.com profile] golden_snitch12, [livejournal.com profile] uniquepov, [livejournal.com profile] bryoneybrynn, [livejournal.com profile] shantismurf, [livejournal.com profile] anabel100, [livejournal.com profile] pir8fancier, [livejournal.com profile] demicus, [livejournal.com profile] nicevenn, [livejournal.com profile] luredbyvenus, [livejournal.com profile] knowmefirst, [livejournal.com profile] sassy_cissa, [livejournal.com profile] wincest_drarry, [livejournal.com profile] herumtreiber, [livejournal.com profile] scarletladyy, [livejournal.com profile] vaysh11, [livejournal.com profile] naadi, [livejournal.com profile] tigersilver, [livejournal.com profile] alisanne, [livejournal.com profile] fire_juggler, [livejournal.com profile] valinorean, [livejournal.com profile] teprometo, [livejournal.com profile] otakuwench, [livejournal.com profile] vlorahp, [livejournal.com profile] rebecca_selene, [livejournal.com profile] gomusing, [livejournal.com profile] savagesnakes, [livejournal.com profile] dacro, [livejournal.com profile] sesheta_66, [livejournal.com profile] neptuneschild1, [livejournal.com profile] vix_spes, [livejournal.com profile] veritas03, [livejournal.com profile] tsuvi, [livejournal.com profile] sophia_clark, [livejournal.com profile] fireflavored, [livejournal.com profile] privatebozz, [livejournal.com profile] goldylost, [livejournal.com profile] flamingolady, [livejournal.com profile] envy_venis, [livejournal.com profile] skriftlig, [livejournal.com profile] bleedforyou1, [livejournal.com profile] nenne, [livejournal.com profile] ariannagray, [livejournal.com profile] winterstorrm, [livejournal.com profile] hallowdraconis, [livejournal.com profile] franalan, [livejournal.com profile] yggdrasilian, [livejournal.com profile] rickey_a, [livejournal.com profile] treacle_tartlet, [livejournal.com profile] cassie_black12, [livejournal.com profile] drarryxlover, [livejournal.com profile] mayfly_78, [livejournal.com profile] lillyrm, [livejournal.com profile] tari_sue, [livejournal.com profile] lilyginny27, [livejournal.com profile] sra_danvers, [livejournal.com profile] delorispea, [livejournal.com profile] kittie8571, [livejournal.com profile] meglw0228, [livejournal.com profile] phoenixacid, [livejournal.com profile] faithwood, [livejournal.com profile] besamislabios, [livejournal.com profile] leochi, [livejournal.com profile] cindas, [livejournal.com profile] melusinahp, [livejournal.com profile] geneva2010, [livejournal.com profile] brinimc, [livejournal.com profile] kubrick_potter, [livejournal.com profile] lmusic, [livejournal.com profile] dark0feenix, [livejournal.com profile] neurotripsy, [livejournal.com profile] linnyling, [livejournal.com profile] steamyaffair, [livejournal.com profile] winter_june, [livejournal.com profile] fiercedragon13, [livejournal.com profile] joan_waterhouse, [livejournal.com profile] fancypantsdylan, [livejournal.com profile] otta_ff, [livejournal.com profile] arineat, [livejournal.com profile] starry_diadem, [livejournal.com profile] queenie_mab, [livejournal.com profile] anisaex, [livejournal.com profile] geinahop, [livejournal.com profile] tabitha666.

With my hubby away on Valentine's Day and my mother-in-law deciding to act like a complete twat, it was so nice to see all of these decorating my profile page. They really brightened my week more than you'll know.





I got some lovely kinky stuff at [livejournal.com profile] hp_kinkfest - come and look at it! Hee hee, I said come.
H/D: Ooh, Malfoy & Making the Wand Fit the Wizard, by the beautiful [livejournal.com profile] moonlitdark
Harry/Charlie: An Education, by the wonderfully talented [livejournal.com profile] nixied.



That's right! [livejournal.com profile] hd_remix is just around the corner - this year we have another great line-up of fun fic and gorgeous art. Don't miss it! Begins 1 March. (Note: I've seen my giftfic and it's THE BOMB!)

I'm sorry I've not responded to the comments on or reposted my [livejournal.com profile] hd_holidays fic yet, but figured you'd rather know what was going on with me :) Watch this space, I'll get to them eventually, I promise.



So, no hernia, no ulcer, no gallbladder problems, nothing gastric or respiratory - it's all cardiac, which I suppose makes the management a bit easier. I'm still awaiting OH surgery to repair or replace my mitral valve and to re-site at least one pulmonary vein. I meet with the surgeons at the end of the month following my MRI. The cardios reckon I'm looking at late March, unless the surgeons think I need to be done sooner. In the meantime, I'm taking drugs to control heart failure and atrial fibrillation, which is how this has all manifested. I'm moving a bit more easily and a bit further, but I'm still often short of breath and my legs hurt like hell. Part of that is the Restless Leg Syndrome I've once again developed (I had it when I was pregnant - let's hope it disappears as fast as it did the last time).

I'm not sleeping well or a lot, but am now signed off work until at least the end of April. Following surgery, I'll be in hospital a week and then in rehab for a month or so. I have until the end of June on sick leave with full pay, so I'm sorted there, at least. I went out for lunch with my boss yesterday, who misses me. I miss her and my job so much. Annoyingly, I find it difficult to concentrate on anything for more than about 30 minutes, (which includes driving), so I'm trying to keep busy with short-term projects. Hubs is still off-shore but the kids have been great, and I've got some help with childcare and housework, and so far, so good. I'm hoping to be fully recovered following this - if nothing else, I'll have a lot better uptake of oxygenated blood!



Sadly, I've had to cancel my trip to the States and Norwescon, as my surgery is inconveniently coinciding with it. I'm completely gutted about this, as I was so looking forward to seeing everyone and having a brilliant time at the con. I WILL get over there eventually, not least of all to visit my family, but now this will give [livejournal.com profile] dysonrules a chance to get Dan or Tom in as a special guest for when I DO get back. I HAVE, at least, been able to get tix to a con over here in September to meet with my fellow Allan Hyde fans and hopefully chit-chat with my favourite very old teenaged vampire.


Right, that's enough of my blathering for now. Hearts to anyone I may have missed and thank you all again for keeping me in your thoughts.

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Date: 2012-02-17 10:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] geneva2010.livejournal.com
Your bravery is inspirational. I'm glad some progress is being made in your diagnoses, and hopefully the surgery will go perfectly. Love you!

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Date: 2012-02-18 12:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nursedarry.livejournal.com
Thank you. Not sure how brave I'll be feeling in a month's time, but at least I can't feel any worse!

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Date: 2012-02-17 10:36 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nenne.livejournal.com
It's good to hear that the doctors have narrowed it down somewhat and that you have a plan. Also good that you don't have to worry about work right now. Take good care of yourself. *hugs*

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Date: 2012-02-18 12:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nursedarry.livejournal.com
Thanks - yes, work worries on top of this would have sucked. The future of the NHS (where I work) is a bit iffy, but not during the time I'll be away.

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Date: 2012-02-17 11:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jtsbbsps-dk.livejournal.com



You are still in our thoughts over here - matter of fact both my mum and uncle asked about you today. I'll be in Reading from 7th-9th of March, hope I'll get to see you then!
All my love, Julie xxx

Ps: Thanks so much for my Valentines heart!

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Date: 2012-02-18 12:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nursedarry.livejournal.com
I should be around - Doug's back that week. Make sure to collect your boxes :) And all best to you and your mum!

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Date: 2012-02-17 11:26 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] arineat.livejournal.com
On one hand - I'm glad you don't have issues in other body areas, on the other - fffff heart probs D: At least you're not losing out on money by having to take unpaid leave. *tries to look at all the silver linings she can find*

I hope everything goes as smoothly as possible. You know we'll all be here to hug and love you as often as you need it. ♥

Love you, girl.

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Date: 2012-02-18 12:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nursedarry.livejournal.com
Thank you! Yes, it's nice to have no work concerns now. And strangely I'm glad that it's all in one part of my body - referrals seem to take forever down here. But that's mostly because of the population size here.

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Date: 2012-02-17 11:57 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lijahlover.livejournal.com
I love you and no you will make it to the States someday soonish *hugs*

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Date: 2012-02-18 12:44 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nursedarry.livejournal.com
I'll be back :)
And icon ♥

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Date: 2012-02-18 12:07 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] knowmefirst.livejournal.com
*hugs my darling* I am glad they have found what it's wrong. I hope everything comes out great and always keep us updated because we all care about your well being.

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Date: 2012-02-18 12:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nursedarry.livejournal.com
Will make sure I take LJ to the hospital with me :) Thanks for the lovely ::hugs::

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Date: 2012-02-18 12:26 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] daiseechain.livejournal.com
Bloody Hell! What has been happening to you?

It sounds like you've had a hell of a time of it lately. Hope everything gets sorted soon as possible so you can get back to your job and oxygenated blood and running around attending cons.

(I actually just popped over to say thanks for the v-gift and now am all kind of O_O and lacking words. So, um, *hugs*)

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Date: 2012-02-18 12:49 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nursedarry.livejournal.com
Sorry for the surprise! Thought my asthma was getting really bad over the winter, but that wasn't it, was hospitalised up in Edinburgh over Xmas with what they then thought was a hiatus hernia/ulcer, but then my heart rhythm went all haywire and I finally ended up in the hands of the cardios.

Thank you for all the hugs. I'm sure I'll be fixed up nicely.

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Date: 2012-02-18 12:41 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] queenie-mab.livejournal.com
Wishing you the best!

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Date: 2012-02-18 12:50 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nursedarry.livejournal.com
Thank you, babe!

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Date: 2012-02-18 12:53 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sesheta-66.livejournal.com
*hugs you gently*

End of March isn't that long away, right? Get lots of rest beforehand. I'm glad to hear the kids are being great; no doubt that helps you get through your (exhausting) days. ♥

I look forward to reading the updates about your speedy recovery. :)

Luv ya!

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Date: 2012-02-18 12:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nursedarry.livejournal.com
Thank you! And thank you so much for all the support both on-line and off. I ♥ you lots.

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Date: 2012-02-18 01:51 am (UTC)
rubytuesday5681: (The rainbow connection)
From: [personal profile] rubytuesday5681
Thanks for the update. I was thinking of you the other day and wondering how you're doing. I'm so sorry you've had to cancel your trip. *hugs*

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Date: 2012-02-18 01:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nursedarry.livejournal.com
Thanks. I'll get back over eventually, but the panels at the conn are going to be so fun this year :(

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Date: 2012-02-18 02:07 am (UTC)
delphipsmith: (wibble)
From: [personal profile] delphipsmith
Sorry to hear the MIL is a twat. Tell her to untwist her knickers and take a chill pill, you have MUCH more important things with which to concern yourself. And remind her that stress is bad for you.

I'm taking drugs to control heart failure is just really not the sort of thing I want to hear from my BFF. Of course, NOT taking them would be worse, so emphatically do keep taking them =:O

NorWesCon will still be here next year, faithfully awaiting your stellar and HEARTwarming presence. Not being a Christian, prayer is Right Out, but we send you lots of hugs and love and good karma etc etc etc which I have no doubt will be helpful and effective :) Take care, be gentle with yourself, relax (as much as possible with young twins, monsters that they are).

LOVE YOU!! ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
Edited Date: 2012-02-18 02:07 am (UTC)

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Date: 2012-02-18 01:12 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nursedarry.livejournal.com
LOL! I love your comment! And on the wibble front, I've still not received anything about the package, not even a note saying it's in the PO waiting for me. Is there someway you can find out if it made it to Berkshire? I'm ever so cross!

Also, I'm not sure I still have the voucher number from Amazon. I'll have a look in my other email. You said I can use it for Amazon.co.uk, right? I'm running out of Agatha Christie CDs...

I ♥ you!

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Date: 2012-02-18 02:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dysonrules.livejournal.com
*snuggles and snuggles*

WE WILL WAIT FOR YOU. I will, however, have to drink up your share of alcohol at the Con. I'm sure you understand.

*nods*

:D

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Date: 2012-02-18 03:03 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] enchanted-jae.livejournal.com
Thanks for keeping us posted, and I hope things get sorted out soon and well.

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Date: 2012-02-18 01:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nursedarry.livejournal.com
I know if the docs can't sort me out, Fifi will :)

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Date: 2012-02-18 04:29 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fireflavored.livejournal.com
*holds you tight* ♥

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Date: 2012-02-18 01:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nursedarry.livejournal.com
Thank you, BB. I owe you a long PM! I''ll get to it asap, cause I wanted to have a nice Hols chit-hat.

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Date: 2012-02-18 05:01 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] groolover.livejournal.com
You'll be able to write a great novel about all this when you're better. I look forward to seeing the film. Maybe you can give some thought to casting the surgeons? Or maybe the actual surgeons will be suitably cute :-)

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Date: 2012-02-18 01:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nursedarry.livejournal.com
The cardio consultant isn't too bad and has a great sense of humour. Not sure about the book thing, you may have to ghost write it for me. Or at least beta it :)

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Date: 2012-02-18 08:33 am (UTC)
kitty_fic: (Default)
From: [personal profile] kitty_fic
*hugs*

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Date: 2012-02-18 01:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nursedarry.livejournal.com
Hugs back. Especially that icon.

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Date: 2012-02-18 09:59 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] treacle-tartlet.livejournal.com
HI THERE, LADY. I think you're pretty fucking awesome. ♥♥♥

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Date: 2012-02-18 01:20 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nursedarry.livejournal.com
Likewise, I'm sure! Feel free to choose one of my Smoochfest prompts :)

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Date: 2012-02-18 11:22 am (UTC)
tari_sue: (HUGS!)
From: [personal profile] tari_sue
*hugs you*

I think you must be about due for some good luck!

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Date: 2012-02-18 01:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nursedarry.livejournal.com
I think you're right! I'll buy a lottery ticket when I do the shopping this week :) Thank you so much for the lovely hugs.

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Date: 2012-02-18 11:53 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] scarletladyy.livejournal.com
*cuddles* Good to hear you know a lot more now. Thinking of you and wishing you the very best ♥

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Date: 2012-02-18 01:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nursedarry.livejournal.com
Thank you, darling. And well done getting through your interview. I hope all goes well with you. *cuddles back*

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Date: 2012-02-18 08:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pir8fancier.livejournal.com
Hmmm, heart-related? Interesting. Sounds like you've got lots of support, etc. although any surgery is nail-biting time. Hugs to you!

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Date: 2012-02-19 06:07 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] hallowdraconis.livejournal.com
goddamn :( Like everyone else, I'm so sorry you're having heart issues, and it's utterly crap that the timing of the op is so bad, but glad it seems that it's all being managed well, and you don't have to worry about work (the last think you need!) I wish you a smooth op, a speedy recovery, and lots of man-porn and cheesecake (because it's medicinal! Really, you *need* it.)

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Date: 2012-02-19 11:37 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nursedarry.livejournal.com
I LOVE the stuff you're wishing for me. Perfect :) Thank you, darling.

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Date: 2012-02-19 12:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nuclearsugars.livejournal.com
*gentle hugs* It's good to hear that your heart troubles are being taken care of, even though you have to miss all the amazing con goodness.

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Date: 2012-02-20 07:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nursedarry.livejournal.com
Thanks! There will be other cons, but I miss all the people there :(

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Date: 2012-02-20 05:12 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] demicus.livejournal.com
Damn, I'm sorry you had to postpone your trip to the States and Norwescon. I'm happy that you have a diagnosis & a game plan to get your health back. Please stay strong until your surgery. I'm still sending you healing thoughts & keeping you in my prayers. (˘ε˘)

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Date: 2012-02-20 07:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nursedarry.livejournal.com
Thank you so much, sweetie. And I love your icon!

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Date: 2012-02-20 05:49 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] leela-cat.livejournal.com
*hugs*

I'm glad you're taking care of yourself and am keeping you in my thoughts.

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Date: 2012-02-20 07:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nursedarry.livejournal.com
*hugs back* Thank you!

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Date: 2012-02-20 09:35 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dark0feenix.livejournal.com
The health issues sound all so big and scary. I don't know whether it makes it easier or harder when you understand it from a professional view. *hugs*

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