::big hugs::

I hope they can all get this sorted soon! I can't believe they thought it was asthma for years. Oh wait, I can--mom GOT her heart murmur from doctors taking two years to correctly diagnose her hyperthyroidism. So they're just as bad over there as here. *sigh*

Just take it as easy as you can, don't let the kids drive you nuts, rely on your inlaws etc. Wish I could be there to help!